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Letters to Others: Asking for Boundaries and the Reactions I Didn’t Expect

     Dear Rambler,         Sometimes, the hardest conversations are the ones you don’t get to have in person. After months of unresolved feelings and  nonencounters with ex-roommate and highschool best friend, I decided to write letters to set boundaries and express myself. What started as a therapeutic exercise turned into an emotional rollercoaster filled with surprising reactions, self-discovery, and lessons in human connection. Why I Decided to Write Letters      Living with people or maintaining close friendships can blur the lines of personal space and emotional boundaries. Over time, I realized I was holding onto resentment and discomfort because I never addressed the little things that bothered me—like mismatched expectations and emotional overdependence.       I had moved in with a friend that I knew since middle school and lived with them for over three years. However, towards the end of the l...

Welcome to Ramblings and Revelations

  Hello, and welcome to Ramblings and Revelations , a little corner of the internet where curiosity meets creativity, and every thought has a place to call home. This blog is a celebration of life’s endless layers—the small, everyday moments that make us smile, the big questions that make us pause, and everything in between. Here, you’ll find a delightful mix of musings on personal growth, heartfelt stories, quirky observations, and maybe even a few unexpected insights. Why “Ramblings and Revelations”? Life is messy, unpredictable, and beautifully complex. Sometimes it feels like a meandering path of random thoughts and experiences—those are the ramblings . But along the way, there are moments of clarity, understanding, and inspiration—those are the revelations . Together, they tell the story of our journeys, and this blog is my way of sharing mine with you. What Can You Expect? At Ramblings and Revelations , you’ll find posts about: Life & Reflections : Lessons learned, challe...